Five Simple Things a Guy Can Do to Win a Girls Heart
79How to win her heart
However it happened, the two of you are either dating or you, at least, very much want to be dating. You know she at least likes you - she's willing to be seen in public with you. On the other hand, you are in love. Your heart is hers, whether she knows it or not.
So how do you win her heart in return? By being romantic, attentive, fun, expressive, and for real. To be more specific:
1. Cook her a meal. Before you panic, let me just say that if you can read and understand this article, you can read and understand a basic cookbook. Sure, some of the terms may be unfamiliar, but they're usually explained somewhere within the pages. It doesn't have to be a fancy meal - baked chicken, a salad, some rice pilaf (from a box), a bottle of decent wine and some store-bought fancy chocolate anything, and she will be swept off her feet.
However, I would caution against serving anything cooked on a grill like steak or barbecue. Ditto pizza, nachos, or hot wings - even if they're homemade. Why? That stuff is considered "man food." The subliminal message of serving a girl "man food" is: "I consider you to be one of the guys," which is not what you want to say!
I would also advise you to scope out any dietary preferences or food allergies she has before you plan the menu. The time to find out she is a vegetarian is not when you set a pot roast down onto the table. The time to find out she is violently allergic to shrimp is not when you're on the way to the emergency room so she can be treated for anaphylactic shock. Don't try to make the meal a surprise; plan in advance and avoid embarrassment later. Plus, advance notice gives her the opportunity to tell all her friends, "He's going to cook me dinner! That's so romantic!" which will earn mucho brownie points for you in the friends' minds.
2. Find out what she likes to do and do it with her. Whether it's salsa dancing, watching old movies, or volunteering at a local animal shelter, if she's into it, you'd better at least try it. At minimum, she will appreciate your efforts to be part of her "world" and think you're the sweetest guy on the planet for letting her cry on your shoulder at the end of Casablanca. At best, the two of you will be well on the way to building a lifetime of shared memories.
3. If she has family nearby that she sees pretty regularly, learn how to get along with them. You don't have to like them, they're probably as weird as peanut-butter-flavored toothpaste, but they're her family. So be nice. Nice means go to family events when invited, mind your manners, dress appropriately, smile, and don't let her mother (sister, aunt, grandmother) get to you. And don't badmouth the family afterwards.
P.S. This suggestion also applies to any pets she might have. Even ones that yakk up hairballs in your shoes or try to romance your leg. If you want to win her heart, you'll take these little tokens of affection in the spirit they're being offered and not kick the offending critter across the room, verbally or (certainly not!) literally. On the other hand, if you are honestly, truly, life-threateningly allergic to her animal companion, you might want to let her keep her heart and let yourself keep breathing.
4. Disable the "male answer syndrome" button. Yes, you have one. The button works like this: you are presented with a problem by a fellow guy friend, co-worker or other acquaintance. You are then hardwired to come up with a few workable solutions to the problems.
If you don't know already, let me be the one to let you in on a little secret: when the girl of your dreams tells you about a personal, professional, or social problem, she is not, I repeat not looking for you to provide her with a solution. So why is she telling you? Because she's decided that you are a good candidate to offer what she most wants: commiseration and support. Many women, myself included, tackle their problems by "thinking out loud." Preferably with an audience (you) that will provide the proper feedback: lots of mmms, and uh-huhs, and the occasional wow, followed by - if you're lucky - lots of comforting hugs. But listen, really listen to her, and try to save your perfect solution until a) she asks for your advice or b) the end of eternity. Warning: she will know in a flash if you're pretending to listen but are really engrossed in whatever's on the tube or the Internet. And she will take her heart and go home.
5. Clean up nice once in a while. You don't always have to dress like you're going to Wal-Mart at two o'clock in the morning. Even if your Friday date is fast food and a movie, it wouldn't hurt to wear something better than your usual attire. Dressing nice for your girl sends a very strong message: "You're worth wearing (a tie, dress pants, not-sneakers, hair gel) for." Girls get the message, believe me. And we respond positively.
Notice that none of these suggestions require a lot of money, a nice car, a lucrative professional sports contract, or a closet full of designer suits. They simply require that you be you, and that you let her be, well, her.
So go out there and find a good cookbook! And don't forget to give her flowers every once in a while - especially if there's no real reason to do so!
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well am sam, my girlfriend broke out with me just because of no reason and i really want her back in my life, please help me out
I love this website, I just got a girl friend and she is great. She is called Matelasi and she is so cool. She drinks drugs and beer. Thank you!
I just broke up with a boy called Samual a few days ago and I just am so angry, he doesn't be nice to my family and friends.
How do you know if a girl likes u?
I agree with the points you made in this, but a lot of women are harder to please than that, while others (like me) need less than this to be swept off our feet. :P However, these are some very good tips for men, and women, even. They say that the way to a man's heart is through cooking, after all. :P Good job.
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It's really good and cool.
ohh ..i agree =]
my gf dumped me a few week's ago, she say's she doesn't want me anymore, but she still loves me deep down, it's easy to see......how can i get her back.....shes so important to me...
My girlfriend, man she was all like, "BETCH!" and im all like "Mhhmm", All i did was tap her sisters ass, but she wasnt for it i was like "man" and she left me and so i like got all mad and i went out with her younger sister, she a couple years younger she like 16, i be like 16 but she all like me and stuff.
I really liked this. Excellent suggestions! (They work, too!)
i am in love with my rommate and she is on love with me (even a blind man could see that she is). but she is playin "hard to get". what should i do?
probably i like ur idea, but ive made it all the time ,,
it doesn't work..
and she already love 2 guys which i wont exxist!!!
You forgot tip #6. Just be a jerk until she likes you. Then turn the charm on. Seems to work wonders.
Seriously.
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some good words of wisdom thank you
ahhh gotta try
ya alot allready have like 2 guys around the ex and the other dude then u lol...
Trust me all these ideas need to be accompanied by luck other wise there is also a scenario where you are messing with a wrong number.
Guys try them out you never know you might be lucky enough.
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i had 2 girlfriends and they broke up with me in a month what should i do? i feel like dying
i had 2 girlfriends and they broke up with me in a month what should i do? i feel like dying
I have met someone very special. One of a kind. She doesn't want to get hurt, and jump into a relationship. We are great together, laugh, smile and just clicked right off the start. Now ladies what do I need to do avoid/do to not scare her away and still maintain a positive path to a relationship?
i have a girlfriend name Wani...she is soooooooooooooooo cute and seem always happy...we love each other but,i have a big problem...she accept as her boyfriend but,i felt uncormfortable when i had this problem.i have an amazing power.i can`t control `it`...i loose control when i was very angry.i afraid if i attack her in loose control.how i wan`t to tell and control my power?
I think d tips ar nice.i wuld try them out
I'm already that guy, why isn't she mine????? :-(
my girl is cheating on me, but i still love her, what do i do to get her back.
i did 2 3 4 and 5 :D
My girlfriend is runing away from me,what do i do to get her close to me.
run after her you should be closer then........
good one badboy! lol
i proposed a girl and she said NO.we are good friends but she said that she does not feel the way i do.
What can i do to win her heart?
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Neve fall for someone unless they are willing to catch you ....
sometimes loving someone means letting go so it doesn't mean that if you love the other party you will definitely get her/him and if you can't get it, let it go. there is no point forcing someone to be with you.
HI GUS I LOVE A GIRE SHE IS VERY BAUTIFUL BUT SHE DONT LOVE ME AND SHE TELL ME IF YOU LIKE WE CAN BE JUST FRIENDS. TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO 4 HER? PLEAS .
HI GUS I LOVE A GIRE SHE IS VERY BAUTIFUL BUT SHE DONT LOVE ME AND SHE TELL ME IF YOU LIKE WE CAN BE JUST FRIENDS. TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO 4 HER? PLEAS .
I love a girl so much that if i did not see her i looked worried and at same time angry. She only likes me but she doesn't love and again she had a guy she loves must. What should i do to win her heart? Pls help me out
I have the same problem as Jon: "i am in love with my rommate and she is on love with me (even a blind man could see that she is). but she is playin "hard to get". what should i do?"
she's a classmate,but we passed through many things
U R ALL LOSERS! this wont help u! just be urself!
If you never felt love,,Then.. why keep bothering?Why telling others to stop loving?How did u get on this link anyway?You don't know even half of the feelings that some of us are passing if you didn't met love.If it's not an helping comment then why keep bothering?It's not so easy as being urself.BAAH, nevermind...
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actual i dont know how to aproach a girl to her i love you.because i feel shy to say so to a girl
pls help me.
i'm straight forward person you have let your girl know who you are.dont try to buid castle in the air
salam,
I like a girl who is junior in my college .as i met her two times n said "i want to be ur friend n said to her to give the number but she replies 'no' but for the 2nd time i gave her my number as 4 days passed but she not called me as my pain is increasing day to day what can i do plz rply
Soo this is coming from a girl with lots of experience with guys. And I need to say something that all guys should know. If you like a girl and pursue her... and she ends up saying "I just want to be friends"... it doesn't always mean there's something you can do to make her like you. It may just be that she is NOT attracted at all. In that case, of course she wouldn't say that to you, because that would risk losing you as a friend and also may hurt your feelings depending on how sensitive you are.
When you are with a girl, just not boyfriend and girlfriend yet, don't be controlling. Don't be jealous. Show her that you are the type of guy she WANTS to be in a relationship with. Or she will lose interest.
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I wish my bf would chase me, instead he just leaves me to cry. Being the one to say I am sorry is important sometimes, I hate fighting so I'm big on apologizing as soon as I know I'm wrong, but as a woman it would be nice to have the same more often.
I really like this girl but she like someone else but this other person haves a girlfriend. she acts like she likes me but idk. how could i found out if she really does??
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Yeah, right. Ive done all those things plus tell her once a day she's beautiful, let her know once in a while Im thinking of her, listen to her, cook, fix stuff for her,.........now there's no more mystery, no bad boy left to cling on to, so giving a woman anything other than make her chase you is a bad idea.
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I have a lil problem and need solutions please. I broke up with my Girlfriend last August because I was tired of the relationship, the girl kept calling me along with her friends, but I don't pick. Last week, I received a call from her cousin who was like pleading on behave of my ex. She was asking why I would break the heart of someone who loves me very much, I told her that I'm not interested in any girl for now. I need your ideas please....
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I just got girlfriend called Lydia.she is prety,beautiful and cute and doesnt needs to love me as much as i love her and idont knoe why? So please help me.
i hv been datin my gf 4 3yrs bt now thngs aint being da sym as at 1st coz we hv lots of fights bt we stil wanna b 2geta 4 so gud coz we really lv each ada. wat cn i do 2 get thngs bck 2 normal?
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Isabella Snow 4 years ago
I like the idea behind number 3 and would add Friends to that list - I love to see my man be extra nice to my friends, even if he doesn't like them. I wouldn't put them together too often if he doesn't, but when it happens, I expect him to suck it up and be nice!